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| - | In the heat of the moment, this issue of the difficult conversation can seem very important. But, if we take a long term perspective, looking back 10 years and projecting forward into the rest of our lives, we come to realise that very few issues are really that important. What are the things that have really made a difference to your life. In comparison to these things most of the things that trigger us are of little consequence. | + | In the heat of the moment, the issue can seem very important. But, if we take a long term perspective, looking back 10 years and projecting forward into the rest of our lives, we come to realise that very few issues are really that important. What are the things that have really made a difference to your life. In comparison to these things most of the things that trigger us are of little consequence. |