From our experience of working with a range of Quaker communities, we are aware that many meetings struggle to deal with alternative points of view in a positive and loving way. We know too that by building expertise in dealing with these situations, the risk of damaged relationships, conflict and fractured communities can be lessened.
We would like to work with you and with others who have skills and experience in this area to look at what support we might offer Friends. In 2026, we are planning to hold two ‘day conferences’, where we will explore the practical steps we can take to develop deeper relationships and acquire the essential skills that strengthen our communities to become more resilient and to better hold differences without division.
We're hoping to connect with groups and individuals who may be involved in this work. Our aim is to build a network of Friends and groups who can respond to and support meetings experiencing conflict and to work with communities to build resilience and understanding to help mitigate the impact conflict so often has.
We are planning two events in 2026, which we are calling ‘Strong Loving Communities’, where we are hoping a range of Friends from across the region will join us:
- 7/3/2026 at Central Bristol Meeting House
- 28/3/2026 at Friargate Meeting House in York
To prepare for these, we’d welcome conversations with any interested Friends or Groups, to bring your skills and experience and help us think about the days, and to plan the content.
Please contact us via the Restoring Relations contact page.
A main planning day will take place on Saturday 7th February, probably online.
Please do let us know if you are interested and if you're able to join us or to contribute in any way.
Quaker Life contact email (Alistair Fuller): AlistairF@quaker.org.uk